02.05.10

A Big Hurdle Cleared

Posted in Foreign Service Life at 7:28 pm by graceandpoise

Got good job news today.  Very good job news, in fact.  News that means that fear I’ve had for so many months of having to join the long unemployment lines come September is not going to be realized.

Yes, Uncle Sam has decided he wants to keep me on (both me and my husband, actually), and has granted both of us tenure.  What this means in practice is that I’m now (pending senate confirmation and some paperwork) a real, bona fide government servant in the sense that I’ll have lifetime job security.  Okay, well maybe not lifetime, but I’ll now have to do something actually bad for them to get rid of me.  The extra bonus: I’ll get to have a document with my name on it with a fancy seal and President Obama’s signature.  My husband and I are both extremely relieved, and thrilled to be able to start planning for a future in which we’re both employed.

02.04.10

Now the pace picks up…

Posted in Foreign Service Life at 10:07 pm by graceandpoise

When they tell you about the bidding process, generally at the end they’ll say something about “conceivably, it could go on as long as… but that pretty much never happens.”  Well, I’m embarrassed to admit this, but that’s exactly what happened in my case.  Six-plus months is definitely far too long to be spending actively bidding, stressing out more and more (and edging closer and closer to “basket-case” status) with every moment that goes by with no positive news.  However, I’m happy to say that less than a week ago I was officially offered what’s actually a pretty good/interesting-sounding job in DC.  So: game on.

Here’s where it gets tricky: they want me there early in May.  The vacancy in that office was unexpected (thus not on the list and therefore not snatched up by someone else earlier), and as of this week the position is already hanging open.  So the earlier I get there, the better.  My husband’s DC job is slated to start in June, so we’re assuming he’ll do a few weeks of some training that can fill the gap between the two (I figure I’ll take care of whatever necessary training after I actually get there).  So: take a date of early May, subtract the congressionally-mandated 4-plus weeks of home leave (think of this as “reintroduction to America” time that all diplomats have to do after serving a full tour of duty overseas), and you come up with very early April.  In fact, you kind of come up with late March, but I’m not sure that idea would go over too well with the folks we’ll be leaving behind.

However, to be out of here in early April is going to take a lot of doing.  There are at least 4 stages of the process to go through just for the paperwork part (each stage handled by a different person/group who may or may not see it as a priority), and that’s not even touching on the logistics part.  Yep, it’s pedal to the metal time.  Okay, well, it will be, as soon as that first paperwork part is done back in DC…

01.03.10

New Year at Home, now Back in India

Posted in Family, Foreign Service Life, Friends & Other Travelers, Home at 8:14 pm by graceandpoise

I rang in the new year together with my wonderful momma, a bottle (and a half) of moscato d’asti, and a couple of sleeping animals.  It was a pretty quiet new year’s gathering, as you might imagine, but I had bags to pack and had been running all over until then trying to accomplish everything on my always-too-long list of things to do.  I had a great time at home, though, even if it was pretty busy, and I’m glad I took the time and spent the money to go (just wish I’d been able to spend just a little more time there).

I keep telling people about my great long list of things I want to do, people I want to see, places I want to go, foods I want to eat, etc, etc…  There’s always a long list every time I go home, and it only grows if I’m coming from someplace where I can’t get a lot of stuff.  Allow me to share a short sample of some of that list from this trip…

  • Hang out with the mom – check!
  • Get a few last-minute Christmas presents for family – check!
  • Eat steak – check!
  • Visit my brother and his girlfriend – check!
  • Eat Mexican food – check!
  • Shop for shoes – check (but still didn’t manage to finish the list of needed replacements for worn-out pairs)
  • Buy some additional Christmas presents for the hubby (his “big” gift this yr came from India) – check!
  • Visit with J & S (and F); R & J-P; E (and K and P); L & K & M – check (except for F, who I’ll have to make a point of visiting next time); not-check; check; check!
  • Eat some of my favorite homemade, mom-cooked meals – check (though the list on this one is virtually never-ending)
  • Spend some major snuggle-time with my cat – check!
  • Go to La Conner and spend some time exploring the shops, and maybe find that beautiful wooden box I’ve been looking for – not-check (next time I’m home, maybe)
  • Pick up some Beecher’s cheese to bring back with me – check!
  • Get my hair cut – check!
  • Eat some Ezell’s fried chicken and yummy rolls – check!
  • Clean out all the unnecessary stuff (old clothes I’d kept around for painting and such, old papers, mementos of this and that…) from my room chez mom – not-check (top of my list for next time, though)
  • Buy some beef jerky from B&E Meats to bring back with me – check!
  • Go to the Pike Place Market – check!
  • Go to the eye doctor – check!
  • Eat lots of crispy, crunchy, non-dangerous fresh vegetables – check (though I could always have done better on this)
  • Visit some of my favorite places in/around Seattle – check (mostly)
  • Drink some good wine – check, check, check!

So after the enjoyable low-key new year’s night, and long day-or-three of travel starting the next morning, I’m back in India.  Had one of those rather ridiculous “welcome to India” moments before even getting off the plane, when the cockpit was unable for the longest time to get any response from the airport authorities about where to park the plane, meaning we spent about 45 minutes on the tarmac just sitting there after landing.  Luggage was also slow in coming, so I didn’t get home until about 4-ish in the morning.  All this is to say, I’m now crazy-tired.  It’s only just 8 pm, and I’d like nothing more than to be snuggled into bed right now.  Mmmm, bed.  G’night, all.

12.25.09

Holidays with Family = Good

Posted in Generalities at 8:20 pm by graceandpoise

I’ve come back to the States for Christmas.  I knew this past summer that I was going to have to come home for at least part of the holiday season this year or risk consequences to my sanity.  Unfortunately, my husband didn’t manage to join me, but it’s still been nice to be home and see my family.  Not as nice as it would have been with him here, but very nice nonetheless.

I spent a few days in Seattle, hanging out with my mom, spending some quality time with the animals, and getting together with a few valued friends, then we hopped on a plane and flew down to Vegas.  We’ve been here at my brother’s place just a little over 24 hours now, had a great dinner last night, spent some serious time opening gifts, and are now kind of chilling in front of the TV.  Tomorrow and beyond: shopping, eating steak, snacking on good cheese, indulging in good chocolates, spending more quality time with loved ones.  Not a bad way to spend a few days.

Having said that, every time I come home and get to spend time with family and friends (and animals), I am reminded of just how many things I miss being abroad, and just how much I wish I didn’t have to miss them.  Here’s hoping you are among the lucky ones who are getting to spend time with the people who are important to you this holiday season.

12.11.09

Still Alive…

Posted in Family, Foreign Service Life, Friends & Other Travelers, Home, India at 3:13 pm by graceandpoise

Yeah, I know, it’s been a very long time since I wrote anything here.  Been having a hard time with a couple of things, which I won’t go into here any more than to say that I’m pretty sure my toothpick was broken and/or faulty.  But there are some updates…

My husband’s parents have been here for the past 3 weeks, and we’ve been having a good time showing them just how different Mumbai is from what they thought they knew of India.  They came together with his sister and spent some time in Mumbai with us, we all had Thanksgiving together, then they headed off to Calcutta to visit some extended family.  After that, the sister flew back to the States and the parents came back to Mumbai for a few days, then we sent them off to the middle of the state of Maharashtra to see the Ajanta and Ellora caves (which they LOVED, as did we when we went).  They’ve been in Mumbai again for the past couple of days, and are taking off tonight.  It’s been fun having them around, going shopping and driving the guys crazy with it, and showing them some things about the country of their birth that they may not have seen before.  Also: my husband has been super-thrilled to see his parents after so long apart from them.  Thrilled husbands are a nice thing to have around.

On the horizon:  I’m going HOME for Christmas!  I’m really, really looking forward to it.  I’ve been needing a good dose of the Pacific Northwest for a while now.  I’ll get to hang out with some long-time friends, and even meet the 1-yr-old daughter of one of them for the very first time, see my cat and my mom’s neurotic-but-sweet dog, and generally relax.  I’ll also probably be wrapped in about six layers of fleece, heavy sweaters, blankets, comforters, and probably some hats – I’m afraid living so long in Bombay has made me weak and I’ll be one of “those” people who come from hot places and are constantly complaining they’re cold!  :-)   Should be a sight to see.

11.09.09

Remember This Day?

Posted in Generalities at 10:39 pm by graceandpoise

I can’t believe it’s been 20 years already.  I still remember sitting there on the floor in front of the television with my mouth hanging open, thinking, “But this is impossible!”  Just a few short years before, I’d experienced first-hand the very real and very strict division between East Germany and West Germany when my family went on a picnic in woods overlooking the huge no-man’s-land between the two – we got chased off by guys with large guns.  This?  This was inconceivable.  Still kind of is.  What a great day that was.

11.01.09

A Halloween Day in the Life

Posted in Foreign Service Life, Generalities at 3:53 pm by graceandpoise

A few of my friends are fond of doing the occasional “day in the life” post.  Yesterday was a pretty unusual day, but most of my days aren’t worthy of actually sharing here anyway.  So without further ado…

0730 – Wake up to use the restroom.  Nervous about this bidding thing, so stay awake to check my email.  Email has a message that may point toward possible good news, but I won’t know for a few more days.

0745 – Decide to go back to bed and sleep in a little.

0815 – Still lying in bed wide awake, thinking about what that email might mean.

0830 – Give up and get out of bed.  Get onto the internet to see if anything’s going on in the world.  Read interesting article about an old map.  Give my husband a kiss as he heads off to the gym.

0900 – Realize I am hungry and haven’t had breakfast.  Go to the fridge and stare at it for a couple of minutes.  My normal breakfast (yogurt) doesn’t sound good today.  What does sound good: the yummy, super-meaty pasta sauce I made Thursday night with plenty of red wine in it.  Spoon plus leftover pasta meat sauce equals breakfast.

0930 – Pick up a “fluff” book and read for a while.  Have to wait to take a shower because the municipal authorities are doing some work on the water supply lines and have said there will be no water until 10:00AM.

1015 – Shower.  Talk to my husband as he comes home from the gym and gets cleaned up.  Start to get ready for work (yes, work on a Saturday – as I mentioned, a bit of an unusual day).

1115 – Gather my halloween costume components; put those and my husband’s halloween costume components together in a bag to take with us to south Mumbai.

1140 – Leave to catch a taxi to south Mumbai.

1245 – Arrive in south Mumbai.  Touch base with my USSS contact running the show at the Taj Mahal Hotel.  Go with my husband to Indigo Deli for some good food for lunch.

1345 – Back at the Taj Hotel, husband goes off elsewhere.  Touch base again, set up camp in the lobby.  Send a few emails/text messages back and forth to people coordinating things, and field a few phone calls.

1420 – G.W. Bush and his team arrive at the hotel.  Greet and touch base with his staff, make sure everything’s squared away with their arrangements.  Spend the next several hours chasing down bits of information, chasing down people’s passports to prepare for the next morning’s departure, and passing messages between various individuals.  Meet Mr. Prem Watsa, dubbed “the Warren Buffett of Canada” – super-nice guy.

1830 – The CG (guy who heads up our operation in Mumbai) arrives.  Connect him with Bush’s Chief of Staff, sit with the two of them for a while before going upstairs together.

1900 – Arrive at G. W. Bush’s suite.  My original plan is to hang out in the hallway while the boss-man goes in to have his chat.  This plan goes out the window as I am ushered inside.  Sit down in on a couch in front of a coffee table that is literally covered with fruits, chocolates, flowers, etc – all seemingly provided by the hotel, and all untouched.  GWB originally assumes I am the CG’s wife (whoa!) and is quickly disabused of that notion.  He really doesn’t have much (read: anything) to say when he asks where I’m from and I say “Seattle.”  Has plenty to say when the CG says Oklahoma is his home.  All in all, the chat goes well – it turns out Bush is pretty personable in person (no great revelation here), and no political-type subjects are discussed.

1930 – CG wants to get a photo with Bush, as do a few other consulate staff who were instrumental in organizing the visit.  Bush comes out of the suite on his way to the evening event, stops for these few photos in the hallway.  Again, he’s pretty personable and asks the staff their names.  Again, my plan is to hang out by the elevator waiting for the CG to have his photo done.  Again, this plan goes out the window when Bush looks straight at me and beckons me over – so there’s a photo out there somewhere.

1945 – My role with the Bush visit is pretty much finished, so I see the CG off into his vehicle to go back home, touch base with my security-type colleagues and Bush’s staff people, make sure everybody knows the arrangements for the crack-of-dawn departure the next morning, and leave.

2010 – Arrive at the consulate-owned apartment building after my most quintessentially South-Bombay-rich-snob-esque taxi ride yet (Taj Mahal Hotel to Altamont Road).  My husband meets me with a plate of pizza (homemade by a friend/colleague) because I’m now starving again.

2030 – Join the consulate Halloween party after going downstairs to a friend’s apartment and changing into my cobbled-together costume.  Several hours of partying ensue.

0130 – Help to usher out the last few Halloween party guests.  Spend some serious time bringing glasses, bottles, cups, etc back from outside to the bar area.

0230 – My husband and I lock up the bar, go back downstairs and try to keep quiet in our friend’s living room while changing out of our costumes, then catch a cab back home.

0315 – Upon arriving home, realize I’m hungry again.  Again with the spoon and the meaty tomato sauce.  Yum.

0325 – Collapse into bed.

It was a rather extraordinary day, and I’m glad it’s finished.  The visit has been occupying a lot of my time over the past couple weeks, and my husband was in charge of setting up and running the Halloween party (which, incidentally, had a guest list of about 600 people – thank goodness not all of them actually came!) which had him pretty stressed as well.  Today, I’m trying to do as little as possible.  Aahhh, Sundays.

10.17.09

Showboating (Showdiving?) for Global Warming

Posted in Diversions, On the Internet at 3:33 pm by graceandpoise

This is a good one.  For those (admittedly few) of you who know/recall what I wrote my master’s thesis on, you can imagine my reaction to this news story.  Ah, Maldives!

10.14.09

Natural Wonders (and some other stuff)

Posted in Travels at 9:40 pm by graceandpoise

It seems, in the space of about one month, I’ve seen two of the Seven Wonders of the Natural World – in fact, from what I’ve read, these two are just about the only ones that appear on every variation of that list.  As it turns out, I may now be more than halfway to seeing all seven on that list.  Who knew?

As I mentioned in my previous entry, Nepal was beautiful.  The people were welcoming, the scenery was gorgeous… it all just kind of fell into place.  It was a marvelous experience (really: I marvel at it).  It’s definitely on my list of places I should get back to and spend some more time.

Without further ado, here are some photos…

Not enough photos for you?  Never fear, there are more here.  Hopefully, I’ll get back to Nepal at some point and do it right, getting out of the Kathmandu valley and doing some real hiking/trekking.  For now, though, this was a great short escape.

10.10.09

Remarkable

Posted in Travels at 3:36 pm by graceandpoise

That is the best word I’ve found to describe what we’ve seen in Nepal so far (in my whole 1.5 days of being here).  Even in the capital city, they seem to live very close to the land.  It’s not one of those places that puts a fake, dressed-up “face” on things – what you see is what you get, and they’re fine with that.  People who ask you where you’re from are actually curious about where you’re from, not trying to find a way to swindle you.  Kids who ask you to take their photo are actually excited about getting their picture taken, rather than trying to find a way to make a quick buck.  Also: unlike the part of India where we live, they have preserved the evidence of their past and can readily talk about their long, long history.  And they’ve got some really great scenery.  It’s not a wealthy country, but most of the people we’ve come into contact with seem welcoming, honest, and overwhelmingly – even fiercely – proud of their country.  Yes, it’s a remarkable place – and we’re enjoying it.

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